siren's song: Serious question: if you perform oral sex on someone, do you feel like they owe you?

ladulcita:

i ask this because i saw this article about deelishis (yes, the jumpoff from Flavor of Love, with the fake butt) and how… when she was 18, she allowed a dude to perform oral sex on her and she didn’t want to do more for him so he raped her.

her husband then told her it was her fault because she…

If you aren’t going to reciprocate that should be made clear beforehand. It’s kind of shady to let someone give you head without them knowing ahead of time. Many people just LOVE to give head and would do it whether they got any or not.

(Reblogged from ladulcita)

Notes

  1. kasice answered: I agree with you
  2. shitrodsays answered: If Im going down on a chick its because I want to. I mean if she wants to reciprocate I wont be opposed to it though
  3. 8thlight reblogged this from ladulcita and added:
    should be made clear beforehand. It’s kind...let someone give
  4. allahthegod answered: Establish conditions beforehand.
  5. ill-b-ur-honey-bee answered: I feel its courteous to return the favor but the force is unnecessary
  6. thequoteunquote answered: i agree with you renee
  7. tularemia answered: nah
  8. breegant answered: Hell no. But I think queer women/people have a different understanding of head/sex.
  9. siodoilvero answered: no
  10. ladulcita posted this